WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME
Thessy is naturally a very beautiful girl or let's say she's a drop-dead lady.
She left the University with almost a first class, having a CPGA of 4.48 where she studied linguistics. From her school days there's this ring she normally wears which she was really oblivious about. She just likes it and wears it.
Yea Thessy was a christian and a committed one too.
However in all these attributes, one thing that was so conspicuous about her is that everybody knows her as some one that loves kids. She loves kids that she wouldn't even mind to baby sit your child for you.
In church she doesn't actually work in the childrens department but she carries people's baby when they are crying, sometimes tying them at her back. The babies most times will stop crying when she helps to babysit.
Also because of this, it seems Thessy have more friends with married woman and consistently she unwittingly sees her self wearing all this married women clothes. She likes long skirts, I mean very long skirts, she ties rapper and the popular "Buba attire" back then.
The truth is with all her stunning look, Thessy was still single. She was clocking almost her late thirties.
She left the University with almost a first class, having a CPGA of 4.48 where she studied linguistics. From her school days there's this ring she normally wears which she was really oblivious about. She just likes it and wears it.
Yea Thessy was a christian and a committed one too.
However in all these attributes, one thing that was so conspicuous about her is that everybody knows her as some one that loves kids. She loves kids that she wouldn't even mind to baby sit your child for you.
In church she doesn't actually work in the childrens department but she carries people's baby when they are crying, sometimes tying them at her back. The babies most times will stop crying when she helps to babysit.
Also because of this, it seems Thessy have more friends with married woman and consistently she unwittingly sees her self wearing all this married women clothes. She likes long skirts, I mean very long skirts, she ties rapper and the popular "Buba attire" back then.
The truth is with all her stunning look, Thessy was still single. She was clocking almost her late thirties.
One day in church when she came to church with a friend, she couldn't leave her friend and go back to her norm of carrying babies. She could concentrate and listen to the preaching. The preacher said something that struck her which is that "Most times we should ask God to make us better than making us bigger because if we are better, things will fall in place and we become bigger."
Of course she was getting concerned about her singleness and that day she prayed a very pertinent prayer which I advice every reader to adopt which is "Lord if there's anything in me which I don't even know that chases people from me, any attitude or form of living which sends a bad signal to people please reveal it to me." In that prayer the Holy Spirit had to question the rationale for her always wearing that ring she started wearing since her university years as if she is engaged. Also the Holy Spirit asked her why she normally dresses like a married woman when she is not even married.
Here's the main gist.
When she changed her attitude and adjusted these things, it was not up to two months and someone proposed to her. At her wedding, believe me eight brothers walked up to her saying "I missed my chance, you were supposed to be my wife. I thought you were married."
This is down to the fact that Thessy is pretty, intelligent, has a good job, nice attitude but some pertinent things of life which she ignored delayed her.
Of course she was getting concerned about her singleness and that day she prayed a very pertinent prayer which I advice every reader to adopt which is "Lord if there's anything in me which I don't even know that chases people from me, any attitude or form of living which sends a bad signal to people please reveal it to me." In that prayer the Holy Spirit had to question the rationale for her always wearing that ring she started wearing since her university years as if she is engaged. Also the Holy Spirit asked her why she normally dresses like a married woman when she is not even married.
Here's the main gist.
When she changed her attitude and adjusted these things, it was not up to two months and someone proposed to her. At her wedding, believe me eight brothers walked up to her saying "I missed my chance, you were supposed to be my wife. I thought you were married."
This is down to the fact that Thessy is pretty, intelligent, has a good job, nice attitude but some pertinent things of life which she ignored delayed her.
The truth is we have to come to the place where we become much more intentional to the nitty-gritty of our lives.
When it come to ladies, understand that only God knows your heart that you are very good in all ramifications but men, Yes Men are attracted to what they see. You must dress attractive (Hey T.G do you advice we dress attractive kwa.)
Dressing attractive has nothing to do with dressing sexy. Another mistake is most people when they marry they reduce their dressing saying they are now married. You still have to dress to attract your husband. He sees girls every day and men always have this young spirit in them that even when they are old they still get attracted. So that you're married is not even a reason to underdress and worse of all is even in the house, most young married ladies tie rapper all round. That's bad. Wear night clothes instead or casual clothes.
Also most girls "Waka" and they don't walk. They just walk anyhow with no concern to walk decent with meticulous attention to every detail that happens around them.
If a boy might wear clothes twice, it is not even adviceable for a lady. I hope you do know the reason.
The next one for the ladies is their hairs. Most time we won't tell you guys that the hair smells but in real sense it does and you should learn to keep it neat.
When it come to ladies, understand that only God knows your heart that you are very good in all ramifications but men, Yes Men are attracted to what they see. You must dress attractive (Hey T.G do you advice we dress attractive kwa.)
Dressing attractive has nothing to do with dressing sexy. Another mistake is most people when they marry they reduce their dressing saying they are now married. You still have to dress to attract your husband. He sees girls every day and men always have this young spirit in them that even when they are old they still get attracted. So that you're married is not even a reason to underdress and worse of all is even in the house, most young married ladies tie rapper all round. That's bad. Wear night clothes instead or casual clothes.
Also most girls "Waka" and they don't walk. They just walk anyhow with no concern to walk decent with meticulous attention to every detail that happens around them.
If a boy might wear clothes twice, it is not even adviceable for a lady. I hope you do know the reason.
The next one for the ladies is their hairs. Most time we won't tell you guys that the hair smells but in real sense it does and you should learn to keep it neat.
For my fellow guys, in as much as we are the one to approach the ladies, we should have some class. There's nothing wrong with knotting a tie very well that tying a tie. There's a difference between the two you know.
Let's stop claiming spiritual brothers and thou art holy brothers and will always tell the girl what the Holy Spirit said to you when both of you are together. Learn to be romantic for once because girls are emotional human beings and are moved by what you said and not what the Holy Spirit said. This is no surprise that most of our so called spiritual brothers lose the best kind of ladies to those who can really talk. Start learning how you will propose to a lady and don't always be boring.
My advice and quote is"Don't ever appear as a suspect in anything you do, or you won't be considered as a prospect." -
What do you think? I would like to hear your opinion in the comment box.
Let's stop claiming spiritual brothers and thou art holy brothers and will always tell the girl what the Holy Spirit said to you when both of you are together. Learn to be romantic for once because girls are emotional human beings and are moved by what you said and not what the Holy Spirit said. This is no surprise that most of our so called spiritual brothers lose the best kind of ladies to those who can really talk. Start learning how you will propose to a lady and don't always be boring.
My advice and quote is"Don't ever appear as a suspect in anything you do, or you won't be considered as a prospect." -
What do you think? I would like to hear your opinion in the comment box.
